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The 132-Million-Hit Lie About Authentic Leadership (And What Executive Presence Actually Requires)
Google “how to be an authentic leader.” Go ahead. I’ll wait. As you can see from my screenshot yesterday, you’ll get more than 132 million hits. 132 million. Let that sink in. 132 million lists, PDFs, frameworks, videos, etc. “10 Ways to Be More Vulnerable.” “37 Traits of Authentic Leadership.” “Be Approachable.” “Lean In.” “Share Your Story.” In less than a second. And I sat there thinking: If authenticity requires 132 million answers, we've already lost the plot. Authenti
Jen Coken
Mar 15 min read


Why Speaking Up Still Feels Risky Even When You’re Experienced Enough To Know Better.
Can I say something gently, the way I would if we were sitting across from each other with an almond milk latte?
If you’ve ever walked out of a meeting thinking, “Dang it. I should have said that,” you’re not alone.
Jen Coken
Feb 13 min read


The Presence Reset: What I’m Leaving Behind to Lead with More Power in 2026
January has a way of inviting performance.
New goals. Clean slates. Confident declarations about what’s coming next.
Jen Coken
Jan 14 min read


Lighting the Path of Leadership: A Hanukkah Reflection
Hanukkah has always meant something different to me than it did to most kids I grew up with.
I was raised in Kalamazoo, Michigan, and in my elementary school, there were exactly two Jewish kids.
Jen Coken
Dec 4, 20254 min read


Executive Presence Lives in Your Perception, Not Your Voice
Let’s cut to the chase: Executive presence isn’t about how you sound.
It’s about how you listen.
Not just to others.
Jen Coken
Nov 2, 20253 min read


When She Finally Spoke, the Room Went Still
Stories from Women Who Decided to Get Unignorable
No one wakes up and decides to mute themselves.
Jen Coken
Oct 4, 20254 min read


Amplifying Your Voice: The First Five Seconds and Beyond
I’ll never forget the day a nonprofit leader in D.C. smiled at me and my colleague, patted us on the shoulders, and said, “Best to you, ladies”…like we were little girls playing at leadership.
That moment lit a fire in me.
Jen Coken
Sep 1, 20254 min read


What’s in Your Emergency Career Kit?
If you lost your job tomorrow, would your self-worth go with it?
There’s a story so many of us have believed:
Do the work. Get the title. Protect your seat.
And you’ll be safe.
Jen Coken
Aug 4, 20254 min read


Why Does True Power Never Need a Performance? The Secrets of Authentic Presence
Last week, I led a workshop series called UNIGNORABLE.
A deliberately designed space, a *taste* of the Executive Presence Accelerator, to show what happens when brilliant women stop shrinking, stop overfunctioning, and start leading from their actual authority.
Jen Coken
Jun 29, 20254 min read


4 Confidence Code Secrets That Make People Listen, Not Just Like You
Let me tell you about the time I felt like a baby seal being skewered during a job interview.
I was living in Colorado, interviewing for a job in the energy sector.
Jen Coken
Jun 1, 20254 min read


You Don’t Need to Change Who You Are. You Just Need to Use It.
Let’s cut the crap.
You’ve been told (directly or indirectly) that if you want to lead at the next level, you need to “work on your executive presence.”
Jen Coken
May 3, 20253 min read


Why Women in STEM Are Promoted During Crisis—And What It Takes to Stay in Power
There’s a pattern in corporate leadership that most people don’t talk about. When a company is in trouble—facing financial downturns, scandals, or leadership failures—women are more likely to be promoted into senior leadership roles.
Jen Coken
Mar 31, 20255 min read


Gender Bias Gets Louder When the World Feels Uncertain. Here’s How to Navigate It.
Ever notice how, when things get rocky—politically, economically, or even just in your company’s leadership—gender bias seems to get worse? Microaggressions increasing? Fewer promotions? Getting talked over or ignored? There’s a reason for that.
Jen Coken
Feb 28, 20255 min read


Strategic Storytelling to Share Your Vision, Drive Influence, and Amplify Your Impact
Ever noticed how a great story can stop you mid-scroll, keep you glued to your seat, or leave you replaying it in your mind for days? Now imagine if your leadership had that kind of power. Here’s the thing: it can.
Jen Coken
Jan 31, 20255 min read


Unearthing Your Authentic Power: How to Overcome Limiting Beliefs and Lead with Confidence
As a senior woman leader in STEM, you likely face unique challenges that test your confidence daily. You might be over-prepared for meetings or reluctant to share your ideas.
Jen Coken
Jan 1, 20257 min read


Legacy Leadership is When Your Impact Lasts in Your Absence
Look here, Louisa, I’m going to cut right to the chase on this one because we’ve spent the last few posts reviewing the legacy leadership framework to build up to this moment right here…The moment where I bring it all together to talk legacy leadership.
Jen Coken
Dec 1, 20246 min read


Are You a Hidden Leader Because of the Imposter You Feel You Are?
Howdy, partner.
Did you hear tell about the mysterious stranger people been seein’ about town? They’re saying they move about the shadows, always keepin’ themselves hidden. I’m not about to go believin’ everything I hear, but I’d like to know who it is and why they ain’t showin’ themselves. Though I’ve got a pretty good idea…
Jen Coken
Nov 1, 20247 min read


Unleash the Power of Your Legacy with More Inspirational Leadership
Dust yourself off and grab those big scissors over there.
You’re about to be the guest of honor at a ribbon-cutting ceremony.
Jen Coken
Oct 1, 20247 min read


Unleash the Power of Your Legacy with More Authentic Leadership
Today, I’m back to kick up the dust on leadership and walk you through one aspect of my new Legacy Leader Framework (as we started to discuss in the last post)–authentic leadership. But before we go jumping on that horse and riding toward the new frontier of authentic, inspiring, and impactful leadership, I want to make sure you’re picking up what I’m laying down, partner.
Jen Coken
Sep 3, 20247 min read


There's a New Kind of Leader in Town Making Waves and Leaving Legacies
Picture this through the lens of leadership. Just try.
You sit in a dark living room, the only lights coming from your TV. The black and white picture cascades shadows around the room. You rifle around in a bowl for another fistful of popcorn but miss your mouth because you can’t take your eyes off the screen.
Jen Coken
Aug 1, 20246 min read
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