YOU’RE DAVID.
I’M MICHAELANGELO.


ISN’T IT TIME WE CHISEL AWAY
WHAT’S NOT REALLY YOU?

The statue of David, one of the most celebrated works of art in the world was created by Michelangelo, from a single block of marble, when he was only 23 years old. When asked how he knew how to build David, Michelangelo simply replied “the angel was always in the marble. I carved until I set him free.”

I’m Jen Coken, and I’m like the damn Michelangelo of coaches.

Michelangelo created David by taking away anything that wasn’t David.

I take away everything that isn’t you.

Think about that. 

What if, right now, what’s actually happening is you’re walking around weighed down and covered by pounds and pounds of marble. That marble is your people-pleasing. It’s your perfectionism, judgment, and comparison. It’s your drivenness. It’s your need for external validation or the insatiable feeling that nothing is ever enough. 

But that marble isn’t really yours. It’s not your true shape. It’s not your actual potential. You’ve covered yourself in marble because somewhere at some time it was as part of feeling safe or feeling secure or feeling like you belonged or feeling you met someone’s approval. And it may have served you at one time, but it’s not serving you now. 

I want to chisel away at that exterior to let you, the real you underneath it all, breathe your own life into the world. I take away everything that isn't you – the drivenness, the perfectionism, the people-pleasing – so at the end of the day, you're crystal clear on who you are and are being true to yourself.

I want your taproot sunk so deep into the ground that you have an inextricable rootedness in who you are.

Just Think. What if…

you stopped seeking external validation to prove your worth and started looking inside yourself instead? 

you were obsessed more with what was right about you instead of what was wrong? 

you felt fulfilled instead of insatiable?

you felt energetic about life instead of exhausted? 

you looked in the mirror and saw WHAT IS instead of seeing who you think you should be or what you should be or how you should look?

Let’s strip away everything that isn't you so the REAL you can emerge. And when you do, you’ll find: 

You’ll have better discernment and decision-making. 

You’ll be courageous enough to take bold action on your dreams or inside your businesses. 

You’ll be a better communicator at home, at work, and everywhere you go. 

You’ll have stronger relationships.

You’ll be able to ask for what you need without shame or guilt. 

You’ll give yourself permission to let go or make mistakes or try something new.

You’ll find yourself present in the moment with yourself and with others. 

You’ll awaken your own greatness and your own way of leading. 

If you're ready to lay down your arms and move forward with who you really are, I’m here to help you lose the extra baggage, chisel away the marble, take off the masks and disguises, and reveal yourself to you. 

Because you are magnificent. 

You are a work of art. 

And I’m here ready and waiting, holding the chisel. 


My private coaching is available exclusively for C-Suite Level Women in STEM or other male-dominated industries.

What Some Of Jen’s Clients Say About Her Coaching:

  • Vicki Loner, CEO OneCare Vermont

    Jen is one of the best coaches and mentors I have ever worked with over my 25-plus-year career.

  • Nicola Summers, Digital Media Director

    Lay it all out and Jen will help you choose what you want to pick back up and sweep what doesn’t serve you away. Our work was transformative and reassuring.

  • Brian Bau, Entrepreneur, Restaurateur

    Jen's coaching and listening create an oasis of presence and contribution that has me be the leader, father, and person I am committed to being.

  • Stefan Heinz, Entrepreneur and Business Coach

    Jen has excellent ears — she heard stumbling blocks that I wasn't aware of. Once they were out of the way, I could go forward really fast. Best of all? She made coaching fun!